Long story short, my boyfriend and I had a huge fight last night after I told him that I have been looking at his social media and that I could not trust him yet (I have been cheated on before by my ex).
He got really mad and told me that we can't go on like this if I didn't learn to trust in him... and so we should temporarily not contact each other for a few weeks because he needs some space to think this through. He kept stressing that this is temporary... but he immediately disconnects from me through social media (unfriending on fb, insta and snapchat).
What should I do now? Should I treat this as a "break" or a "break up"?
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I personally don't believe in "breaks" at all, if someone says that, to me, it's over, but that's just me. He does have a point though. You have a right to your feelings about trust and it's understandable, but every relationship is different so you can't go into it believing that you can't trust him. ie, leave the past in the past. Give him the benefit of the doubt and basic level of trust, until or unless he gives you a reason not to.1