I've always wondered this because playing hard to get may come across as I dont like you or if they know you're playing hard to get, after a while you might get bored.
I sometimes play hard to get and its difficult because it may come across as I'm not interested when I am 😅😂
Most Helpful Guy
Be Girls or Guys, we only put a lot of efforts to things which we dont easily get. If I am readily available, if I show too much interest, if I show you lot of affection and care - You will start taking me for granted.
So the answer is we all love challenges. iF a guy doesn't respond to your text or seems uninterested to you, your mind will start thinking about him oh why this guy dint text me back... and you will happen to text him again. And there would be guys who would flood you with messages and you won't even bother to open his profile or text and keep it unopened.
So I hope you get it.1
Most Helpful Girl
It can honestly be super annoying and frustrating... a little bit can be fun at first as a way of flirting and presenting yourself to a new guy, but if it persists for too long, it can sometimes feel like the guy isn't actually interested in you and is just playing with your emotions. Personally I would rather flirt and be a bit closed off but still open enough to show that you're interested so that it is more interesting for the guy as well as yourself
... also the "chase" is one of the best parts of trying to get a partner or get someone's attention, but playing hard to get is not the way to do that because it's only one person chasing after the other, it should almost be like both sides chasing after the other with flirtatious banter!1