I've always wondered this because playing hard to get may come across as I dont like you or if they know you're playing hard to get, after a while you might get bored.
I sometimes play hard to get and its difficult because it may come across as I'm not interested when I am 😅😂
Most Helpful Guy
Tbh I don't like when someone plays hard. It doesn't always mean that when the person is playing hard that he/she is not interested. He might be getting mixed signals from your side because of which he might be just confused what exactly you want.
in my opinion if you really like someone then it must not feel bored. From other point of view he might wanting time to think about it and then take the decision.
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Most Helpful Girl
It can honestly be super annoying and frustrating... a little bit can be fun at first as a way of flirting and presenting yourself to a new guy, but if it persists for too long, it can sometimes feel like the guy isn't actually interested in you and is just playing with your emotions. Personally I would rather flirt and be a bit closed off but still open enough to show that you're interested so that it is more interesting for the guy as well as yourself
... also the "chase" is one of the best parts of trying to get a partner or get someone's attention, but playing hard to get is not the way to do that because it's only one person chasing after the other, it should almost be like both sides chasing after the other with flirtatious banter!1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE