Most Helpful Girl
it's hard to stop being in someone's life no matter if u r married living together seeing each other dating so on and so on. it hurts to be rejected by your significant other u love. it hurts everyone all around. And although it is quite selfish to go back on your word and even break a marriage contract the fact remains that something within her compelled her to change what was making her feel tortured. captive and insecure about herself so much so that she went to great lengths to imagine herself as she wished and then made it happen in order to gain her self respect and happiness. we may not agree with those types of actions but she did what made sense to her. speaking from experience similar to this I understand the drive she had to change at all cost.
Most Helpful Guy
Did she see a guy in a better position than you? That's hypergamy mate. They're social climbers. They use men for resources and social position. Feminism made it possible by taking away the civil restraints of civilisation to keep that urge in check. No man should marry any more, the whole games rigged for them to do what they want. Business and politics panders to them because all they do is buy things constantly and waste money, perfect for keeping the economy booming eh and the money travelling up instead of down.