sorry guys for the rate this pretty much fucked up my dad even through my ex-doesn't affect me as much she still does in a way. i always wanted a 2nd chance deep down and realize we never had a real relationship because of her parents. before you ask am still with my current girlfriend because she makes me happy and makes me into a better person so known she still worth dating. anyway, how should i reactive to this? and am wrong for being mad she thinks so little of someone she known for years who was the first boyfriend not to treat her like a sex object? she use to cry a lot during our relationship i was poor back then yet am the first boyfriend to buy her roses which made her smile for weeks and am the first boyfriend to be there for her on valentines times.. all i could afford to buy her was 1 small bear and she literally broke down crying that was the first gift she has ever received from a boy on valentines day or anyday for that matter.
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds drama to me.
A mature way to deal would have been, you don't tell your current girlfriend who your ex. is. You go about your business.
If your ex calls out your name in front of your girlfriend. you gently tell your girlfriend. Thats your ex. the end. and you only care and want to be with your now girlfriend. That you had a good time with your ex. but things didn't work out for whateve reason ad its time to move on and happy to found new love with your girlfriend and that she is making you happy.
Its a small town, and it will be unevidable to avoid your ex... to let your new girlfriend. know and feel secure and love.
Most Helpful Guy
She is an ex. The only time you see her it should be in your rear view mirror and the image should be getting smaller. As long as you concern yourself with her reaction to anything, you have not fully moved on and you are being unfaithful (in a way) to your current girlfriend.
Your current lady wants to get into a cat fight with your ex? That is the handwriting on the wall, the warning sign, last exit for the next 250 miles, wake up call, etc.