My question is am I normal? Why can't I stop thinking of him when he's the one that hurt me and broke up with me. Why do I still cry when I think of him. We dated on and off for like 4 years and he he is now in a happy relationship. He moved on and we haven't had any type of contact in the past 2 years, he basically ghosted me, the last time I messaged him he read it and never replied, he doesn't have me blocked , he just ignored me this whole time. Why does it still break me? Not a day goes by that I don't think of how it used to be. I can't accept the fact that it wasn't real and that our love was a lie. He decided to forget me and never look back why can't I do the same? I'm tired of hurting.. and I've dated but nothing compares, I've been single because I want to not because no one else wants me.
Most Helpful Guy
Love is a fucked up thing. You'll have to focus on yourself and let the past go. Once you're happy with yourself, you'll attract people, friends and positivity into your life. Don't hold on to memories that will never come back. Don't be sad that it ended. Be happy that it happened.1
Most Helpful Girl
Just learn to let it go. You are so clinging to this you don't allow yourself to let it go.
Truly, tell yourself every day that you're not meant to be and get excited about the next person that will give you what you want and need.
Be excited with life, friends and new people you will meet. Date a lot and DON'T compare the guys you meet with him. It's not healthy for you.1