Why can't I get over a breakup that happened 3 years ago?

My question is am I normal? Why can't I stop thinking of him when he's the one that hurt me and broke up with me. Why do I still cry when I think of him. We dated on and off for like 4 years and he he is now in a happy relationship. He moved on and we haven't had any type of contact in the past 2 years, he basically ghosted me, the last time I messaged him he read it and never replied, he doesn't have me blocked , he just ignored me this whole time. Why does it still break me? Not a day goes by that I don't think of how it used to be. I can't accept the fact that it wasn't real and that our love was a lie. He decided to forget me and never look back why can't I do the same? I'm tired of hurting.. and I've dated but nothing compares, I've been single because I want to not because no one else wants me.
Why can't I get over a breakup that happened 3 years ago?
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