It's been two years since my ex broke up with me. Is weird that I'm not completely over it? Do I need more closure?
What Guys Said 1
You should be able to move on since it has been 2 years but I think that this kind of feeling is not uncommon.
Your first relationship is a bit hard to get over usually, and having proper closure and support from others goes a long way.
I've said this before and I'll say it again, most of the time what helps you to get over someone is to not dwell on the past and focus on your own life. What do you have going on? Are you a student or do you have a job or are you in some kind of athletic program? Focus on that and getting better at it.
I also find that things like working out, fun hobbies, hanging out with friends that you love, and being a kind person to those in need (charity, volunteer work) really helps you feel good about life.
You won't even remember your past problems after a while because you find happiness in yourself and being a good person, rather than thinking about some depressing thing.
I really hope everything works out well for you, and that you find this helpful. 😊1
What Girls Said 2
Yes you should have gotten over it by now. Do you still see him around? It could help if you don't see him anymore.0
Basically your feeling like that as you have no reason to move on. You've not had another boyfriend. And your clinging to the past as you don't have answers0
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