Relationship troubles with man who has a child from previous relationship. Not me but him! Help?
What Guys Said 1
That sounds pretty complicated. I think it's totally normal that you have normal stress in your life that affects your mood/actions at times, and some of it might be related to the relationship dynamics (at least indirectly).
And I think it's normal that he might start to connect some dots even if the dots aren't really there. He sees certain things happening and it's just his own perception of what's going down.
So you guys need to try to take a step back and just communicate. Like in detail. Figure out (as best you can) what might be causing stress in your life and communicate those things to him. And see where it goes from there.1
What Girls Said 1
It sounds like he just wants some space with his kid and isn't willing to say it so puts it all on you.
This is still a fairly new relationship when there is a child from a previous relationship involved, and they have been practically living with you. Having a few nights on their own is a good thing, especially if as you say she wants to spend more time with you than him.
Set some boundaries and organise a schedule of nights they stay at his place and nights they stay at yours so it doesn't escalate into a crappy argument0
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