Months after my ex and I broke up, I found out that he was a cheater, and I found some screenshots of him texting another girl too. He got to know that I have the screenshots, and he sent me a looong message, lemme summarize it here.
"I know it doesn't matter anymore. I was immature, and immature people make mistakes, right? Even I did, but cheating is not one of them..." blah blah blah then he stated that he saw that girl as a sister and it is okay to use thay language with a sister, but he's still sorry that he has cheated "from my perspective". It's the end of his text that got me emotional, and I'm quoting it right here:
".. I don't know for how many more days I am gonna be stuck in this salmon colored room with a photo of two sea otters hanging from the wall.." Once I told him that if we marry then our bedroom will be salmon color, and I often sent him random pictures of sea otters and told him "oh look I found our picture". That got me so emotional. He still misses me.
I didn't let that make me feel in love again tho, I sent him back a long text that roasted the shit out of that asshole, I even told him that he will miss me forever and eventually die in a salmon color room with a picture of sea otters hanging from the wall. I still hate him. What did he do when he should have done this madness? He mentally tortured me.
But I can't stop thinking about it... he painted his wall and all... why is he doing this? Have I really been so harsh? I'm getting all sentimental with this, help me! :(
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He doesn't truly love you neither does he respect you. He just wants you to believe that he has changed. Trust me I've been through this before. Don't let him deceive you focus on the future because I'm sure there are lot of guys out there who would love you unconditionally!
There is nothing bad in being friends with him but make him feel bad by telling him to move on.1