It's been about 5 days since I've been doing no contact on my ex fiance. He's already reacted angry and passive aggressive in desperation for a response ("I'll just block your number I guess so I won't message you anymore...", etc.) And when that hasn't worked, I finally got a somewhat interesting text message saying "I hate to admit it but I miss you"... And he's then been trying to call me on Facebook messenger, call my phone, anything possible. I also noticed he's trying to re-add me on Facebook now... He's still sending me messages like "I'll leave you alone I guess"...
So my question, is what he is doing sincere or is it just another thing he is trying to get the satisfaction of a reply? Should I hold out with nc for an actual, definite renconcilation attempt? Because I've read that a lot of this behavior could also be breadcrumbs from your ex.
Most Helpful Guy
I don't get it if you don't like him block him and if u still do respond.
Pretty simple really.
There's no point playing mind games and ignoring. It's mentally draining in my opinion your still thinking so much.
I say respond if u want to date again if not block and bye0
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think I'm in the position to say this but this is just an opinion (coming from a 15 year old girl who loves analyzing things):
- It depends on why you broke up. Was it his fault? Your fault? Does he feel guilty about it?
- Was he faithful to you?
- If anything, he's your ex-FIANCÉ, you should know him better than the people here, do you think he's sincere?
- Does he change his mind a lot? Cause if he does, like as you described his actions, you probably shouldn't just take him back like instantly. Make sure he's serious. You don't want heartbreaks for the second time.
- When you broke up, was he devastated? Angry? Mad? Pissed? Like he would be desperate? Think about those.
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