I'm hurt and want nothing to do with him but i find myself wanting to spiral back and hold on to him and say its ok. I want to be his friend again and be in love with him again but i know he isn't worth my love anymore. Maybe he never was... i guess i feel he would change and love me and be the man i hope he would be.
Anyways what should i do? Reach out to him or stay away? But the obvious answer is stay away.
I feel so stupid for even asking but i need to ask... i need someone to give me their advice.
Most Helpful Guy
You deserve better than him , he obviously doesn't care about you as much as you care about him. Every time you go back to him your setting up yourself to get hurt even more. so get out , meet other people, and get away from him
Most Helpful Girl
Stay away. You know it. I realize it is difficult, the best things I can say are keep yourself busy. When you want to reach out, try to distract yourself. If there are certain things that trigger memories or make you miss him, try to avoid those triggers or re-associate those things so that when you encounter those things you won't think of him.
Also, this isn't to say you didn't love him, but I do want you to think about it, did you love him or maybe you loved being with him or maybe you loved being in love or perhaps you loved the man he would one day be.