Was my ex's love for me true? Please help?

Me and my girlfriend were going out for 2 years, it was both of our first loves and we were so perfect together and everyone knew it, however a couple of months ago my girlfriend found out I had messaged this girl twice quite explicitly, although this was said by my doctor to be solely down to anxiety as I was so worried she would break up with me and move onto a boy straight away, these anxiety attacks caused me to do stupid things, and she understands that. As well as this she kissed another boy when she was unbelievably drunk and almost passed out basically, she didn't even know it happened but as soon as she did she told me. Now it's been 3 months and she seems to be moving on from me really well but she says she was so in love with me...

What I'm trying to say is did she truly love me, and if she did would she have stayed with me?
And if you were in the same situation would you stay with your boyfriend?


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  • You can love someone and not want to be with them anymore. Maybe she got deeply hurt when you messaged the other girl. That's a possibility of why sea acting distant. I'm sure she loved you if she was with you for two years.

    • what's best for me to do now though?

    • Contact her, and tell her you want to try again. The feelings aren't gone. 2 years is a long time. Try not to cheat again unless you are willing to lose her forever. If you want to date other people then don't contact her and leave it at that. For the sake of you both

    • But what if I want to try it again and she doesn't?

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