Most Helpful Guy
Because their core value is not about your well-being, as it is about theirs.
one of my closest friends lost her best friend when she met a guy with wealth, status, property, and business ownership. She married him and then invited her old friend over to her new home after some years has passed.
Gold diggers are in it to win it, had nothing to do with love.
by the way, this friend of hers told me at A Christmas party that she's not sexually satisfied by her husband and invited me out to the guest house to "service her needs". Pretty shallow, IMHO.
Most Helpful Girl
Because they hide their true intentions from their partner, and then innocent people who are looking for an actual relationship get hurt.
When it's mutually beneficial, such as a sugar daddy/baby relationship, the gold digging aspect of it isn't criticized because both parties have consented to the arrangement.