Weve been on a rollercoaster ride the past month. He tells me he isn't in love with me anymore and that it's too much stress. Then 2 days later he says he is in love with me but feels like he's not good for me. And the same thing happened AGAIN. So this time I left for 3 days. No texting or anything. I ran into him by accident and could tell that he hasn't been showering (not normal for him at all) and that he'd been doing this thing he only does when he's really upset... we're both prideful and both like to be in control but I need to take some control back and show him that I love him but I don't need him. He needs to realize that he CAN lose me. Should I stay gone for a few more days? What should I do? Does he love me or no?
when I was home he kept asking for a hug... wanted me to stay! Even though my heart wanted too my head said " no"