Time for a plot twist! Now let's say you are going out of your way to avoid them and doing a flawless job. They aren't doing anything that would warrant a restraining order in the eyes of the law like texting, calling, emailing, coming over etc. The last time you saw them they burst into hysterical tears because you didn't want to talk to them and followed you on foot down the street crying. Now they go around asking everyone you know nosy questions about your life.