Most Helpful Guy
it sounds like he's selfish. keep in mind you're very young, and he probably is too. you should definitely not let your schooling suffer because of the quality of your relationship. he obviously doesn't appreciate how much you have on your plate right now and he isn't trying to make things easier for you. you shouldn't work less so you can spend more time with him. if anything is gonna change it should be him, doing his share in the relationship, cleaning the frikin dishes, and at the very least being understanding about how hard you're working. $20 a month doesn't sound like you are dependant on him but I may be wrong. if you can save that $20 in other ways then you won't need it from him. if he can't grow the heck up then the relationship isn't going to get any better than it is now. no, you can't force someone to love you
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Most Helpful Girl
I like the guys' answers to your questions and agree - not worth fighting for and you can't make him love you. Why are you doing all this for him when it sounds like he does nothing for you? You got an extra job to avoid needing $20 from him and now he whines about the consequences of your working. He is spoiled. My mother taught me a saying that will freak everybody out here and granted I am from an older generation but it is true - "Don't be a wife to a man who won't be a husband to you!" That's what is going on here, so stop. Leave, focus on your education and a better man will find you. When he does, remember what my mama said so this won't happen again.