Is it too late already? I feel so weighted down that I could break any time.
Most Helpful Girl
Wow. She needs to humble herself and be grateful for her life but it seems to me she isn't, which is a shame cause I bet many women wish they where in her position right now. Married, kids, jobs... etc. I say you guys should get help from a professional and try to fight for this marriage, but both people need to be sure that this is what you really want. When you guys said I do, you also meant through thick and thin. This is a thick time, so you should try to fight through it. Good luck!
Most Helpful Guy
I've been in a similar situation. Had a kid with a girl I was seeing in high school. We made it work (kind of) and even had another child, got married and bought a house. Every year that passes we become more and more like roommates. I don't find her attractive sexually at all. we haven't had sex in two years. But we stay for the kids and it's comfortable. Not sure how much longer it can go like this. Suppose when the kids are gone we will decide. Sometimes I feel like I'm wasting my life but I also see the single friends and I feel my life is much more full than there's. It's a tough call.