My boyfriend (now ex) cheated on me with a girl who is engaged, the girl's fiancee has never trusted his girl around my ex because of how they acted, as i didn`t trusted any of them either.
anyway i just found out he cheated with her.
would you tell her fiancee? or should I leave things as they are?
Most Helpful Guy
It's the best thing to do. He should know the truth and I am very sorry for what has happened. What I would try and do is ask him to meet up for coffe or whatever if you already know each other. Then tell him what happened. I don't know how you can prove it, but if you can that would be good too. If I were getting married I would be glad to know someone was telling the truth. I would be disappointed but I would really appreciate it. It'll probably save them lots of money, emotions, and years of unhappiness if they just get this out now.
I would tell him as soon as possible.1
Most Helpful Girl
Generally I think it's best to stay out of things like this, but given you're in the exact same position he is and it's not purely revenge or spite I would tell him2