anyway i just found out he cheated with her.
would you tell her fiancee? or should I leave things as they are?
Most Helpful Guy
It's the best thing to do. He should know the truth and I am very sorry for what has happened. What I would try and do is ask him to meet up for coffe or whatever if you already know each other. Then tell him what happened. I don't know how you can prove it, but if you can that would be good too. If I were getting married I would be glad to know someone was telling the truth. I would be disappointed but I would really appreciate it. It'll probably save them lots of money, emotions, and years of unhappiness if they just get this out now.
I would tell him as soon as possible.
Most Helpful Girl
I'd make sure he finds out but not reveal myself as I've seen many weirdos that get mad at the person who reveals the awful truth to them.. psychos instead of being thankful... I'd just make damn sure he finds out, but in a way in which it does not involve me telling him personally.. I'd find a way. Then whatever happens after that I don't care if they stay together or not or if the other two become a pair... like whatever.. 💁🏼!!