long story short, my ex and I dated for 3 years, he moved across the state to be with me, and dumped me about a month and a half ago. since then there has been mixed signals from him everywhere I look. one minute he doesn't want to be with me because of my family (I have 2 disabled parents whom I'm trying to teach personal space to), the next he stills wants to do stuff. then we're back to not wanting to be with me or really have anything to do with me. just before leaving me we were talking a out starting our own family eventually, not right now but eventually.
should I just give up?
Most Helpful Guy
Here's a key. When he contacts you don't say anything. If he's playing the hot and cold game you can play it too. You don't deserve to be treated like that by no one. He either want a you or he doesn't. He can't have his cake and eat it too. Do you know how many guy a that would probably date you in a heartbeat and won't have to second guess being with You? A bunch. Why waste your time on an immature guy1
Most Helpful Girl
Unfortunately, yes. You should want to be with someone who loves your family and just wants to be with you0