So, please no hate. I feel horrible as it is. We broke up two years ago because when he was deployed I cheated. He came home and officially called it off, saying I was manipulative, unfaithful, had no morals, etc. I really loved him and still do. He came home a few months ago and we haven't seen each other, but the other day at the corner market I saw him with some girl I later found out is his girlfriend. She's perfect. I know no one is really perfect but she's damn close and everything I'm not. The only similiarity is were both brunettes. Mines medium length and heat and die damaged. Hers is long thick and shiny and natural curls. Im short and not fat but not in great shape either. she's tall, hourglass figure and in shape with long af legs. She has an effortless natural beauty, super pale perfect skin. After some social media stalking my jelousy got even worse. she's interesting, smart, different and jsut gorgeous. I can't help but look at her page or profile every chance I get. I want to drive by there house and see if they really look that happy. Do I confront him or her? I really dont know what to do
Most Helpful Guy
"We broke up two years ago because when he was deployed I cheated."
"I really loved him"
no yo fucking didn't... if you did you wouldn't have cheated on him! oh and what a time to sleep around! whilst h's doing the hardest job of his life, away from home in a hostile environment.
I've been in his shoes whilst on tour, and I've seen other blokes go through it too. Stop stalking them and stop being a crazy ass bitch.7
Most Helpful Girl
No? What are you going to confront her about? Being awesome? That sounds seriously crazy.
Instead of focusing on her and their relationship, focus on yourself. Take better care of yourself if you're unhappy with your appearance, start dating, go out with friends or find a hobby. Get your mind off them, because they are none of your business3