the guy I used to date is moving on, I know it's what's best for him. It makes me happy that he's enjoying life. I just don't know that I want him to... i know it's selfish, I just know once he's moved on he's gone and he's never coming back. I don't want to lose him, and I feel our freondship is gonna disappear once he moves on. ugh I just don't know.
Most Helpful Guy
In essence, it is hard. Time heals all wounds and all that but being with someone you love is also giving apart of yourself.
Everything will go on and move forward. Everyone learns to love again, it's just when you hurt just a little less1
Most Helpful Girl
You have already lost him in the you will never be the most important person in his life type way. Even if the friendship disappears, do remember that you have made an impact on his life and that will never be changed.
You move on. Look at it as, you loved him that means you are capable of love and of loving someone else. There isn't just 'one' person for you out there, there are multiple people with whom you could be compatible with, it's really a matter if you and that person manage to work out the problems together. You really should do no contact, it greatly helps in that moving on process.1