Last night my girlfriend was at my house watching a movie and beforehand she told me once we were finished she had to go to her friends house. Anyways, about three quarters of the way through the movie, her friend texts her and says tell your boyfriend that you have to go in ten minutes so we can go pick up groceries (which she actually did). But isn't it quite disrespectful that she would leave her boyfriend before the movie was even finished? And when I asked her about it she said she didn't want her friend to be alone. But, when she left my house, guess who was alone? Me. What makes it worse is that we only get to see each other about once or twice a week because we are both so busy. So I am wondering, should I end it because of this?
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Brother this is a MASSIVE RED FLAG..yes this women is being VERY disrespectfull, you had a date together planned and she broke it to spend time with her freinds..
lets say you were out having lunch someware fancy and she had a text of her freind tell her to cut it short and she just got up and left.. remember its not the place that counts its your time together and she's is starting to take you for granted..
what she's telling you without saying it is her interest in being with her freind is worth more to her then spending time with you.. so what do you need to do now.. well give her what she wants time to be with her freinds..
DONT CALL HER FOR 3 weeks.. if she calls you tell her your going to be busy during this time and won't be able to be around her.. but like I said no calls to her and no texts.. if she texts you then don't reply back.. at the end of the 3 weeks unless she's at your front door keen to be with you and ignoring her freinds to do so then she's a lost cause and you should call it a day with her...
if you look at comments by women they all tell you not to act rashly becouse she may not take you back.. the question is do you WANT TO BE WITH A WOMAN WHO DOES THINGS LIKE THIS?.. I know I wouldnt.. who says if you do break up with her that you would want her back?...
DONT LET WOMEN WALK OVER YOU BECOUSE THEY WILL..
remember ALWAYS be respectful.. ALWAYS be a gentleman.. but is she's starts to take you or your time together for granted and if you bring it up and she's dismissive of your feelings in the matter then she's not worth your time and you should get rid of her..
DONT ALLOW YOURSELF TO BECOME HER PUPPY.. BE A MAN
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