My ex recently got im contact with me via social media and said we could be friends. He was the one that broke it off (years ago now, after a 6+ year relationship) and at the time I said I couldn't be friends - which I feel is still true on the account of too many feelings and too much history. My question is this: If you planned to spend your life with someone, can you ever really be friends? And why would you want that?
Most Helpful Guy
You can, but that's not what he's after. Tell him to fuck off or say "I don't think that is a good idea, we shouldn't contact each other".
Personally, I prefer option 1...0
Most Helpful Girl
No I would not do that nor would I want him to do that because deep down inside if there were feelings, there is probably still some there0