so backstory there's this guy I used to like and tbh still do to some degree. I've know him for a few years and we've hung out a few times but nothing serious ever developed. I went for along time with talking to him but early this summer we started talking again and hung out only for him to go ghost again. Well in a couple of weeks I know he'll be moving out of state for school (he mentioned it while we were talking). I was wondering if it would come across as too petty or desperate if I just told him good luck on social media If he posts anything about leaving ( we're still friends on everything) What I want to mean by saying good luck is genuinely good luck. I want to be good person about it or I guess I should probably say the bigger person since what he did was a jerk move but I don't want to seem like im still bothered by it and show that I am mature enough to wish him luck. Should I bother saying anything at all? Should I like it? Or do nothing at all and just ignore him and forget?
Girls, Does it come across as too petty or desperate to wish him good luck?
What Girls Said 1
I don't think it seems petty... I think it would show that you're the bigger person and despite him ghosting you, he should find that admirable! If you're still worried that it sounds petty, add a smiley face to your message (because something so simple can convey a certain meaning in a message)1
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