After my boyfriend dumped me (after 5 years together) I feel like changing my whole appearance; my hair, my makeup, my clothes, my body, etc. I don't know if this is wanting to make my ex jealous or what. I just feel the need to become a different person. Is this normal?
Most Helpful Guy
You may change everything on the outside, but if nothing on the inside changes, you will remain the same. Don't change your body, hair, etc. I know it hurts, but take it easy on yourself, you don't have to change all these things. I would say you should lay low for a while until you can think straight and be constructive. Talk to friends or family and try to get through it! I am sorry you two broke up. Cheers! God Bless!1
Most Helpful Girl
I think in one aspect, you are doing what needs to be done, taking care of yourself. But don't do it to make an ex jealous, do it to feel better about yourself. whayever it takes to boost your confidence again but maybe rather than the extreme of changing EVERYTHING, focus on one or two aspects of your life. Maybe a new hobby and hairstyle. Or a new wardrobe and a workout routine.0