Is it ok to tell him that he is not doing any effort?
What Guys Said 2
every relationship has a "honeymoon" stage (there's actually a honeymoon stage in each step in the relationship) and if either of you are losing interest early on, it's not a good sign0
What Girls Said 1
If I were in your shoes, I'd tell him, "Where the effort?" Us girls want to feel desired as much as we desire. If you know what I mean. Don't let him near the cookie jar until you see that he's putting effort into the relationship. If you feel no connection at all (like you don't get butterflies when you see him or when his hand grazes your arm or something) end it. Be like, "Hey ____, I feel like there's no connection between us anymore and I feel as if you haven't put in any effort since we started to get serious. What's the problem?" Or something like that. Lol. Communication is key in every relationship. Make sure you are both on the same page. It's okay to tell him how you feel. Be honest and open about your feelings. It helps.2
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