I've been with this girl since last summer. we first kissed in mid august but before that our friends knew we were like together for a good 3-4 weeks, I was taking it slow for my own reasons though. Anyways, I found out last night (through a drunk text) that she hooked up with some guy in late July while she was drunk.
I found it out and I was livid. One night she told me all the guys she'd hooked up with and didn't mention this one, and another time she told me she didn't hook up with anyone that summer (now I know she hooked up with him and a couple months ago I found out she hooked up with 2 girls). we were definitely texting the nights she did it too so to me it's like text me, hook up with this kid, send me another text. That's f***ed up to me. So besides the fact she did it, she lied to me too. I could've hooked up with other people but didn't.
To me this whole situation is just completely disrespectful to me and to add insult to injury one of my best friends who's family friends with her knew and didn't tell me.
Do you think she actually cheated? Should I feel hurt by it? And what would you do in this situation?
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The evidence is there. So Yes. She did. No ifs, ands or buts about it. And yes, you have the every damn right to feel hurt about it.
I don't give a damn how long a couple has been in a relationship, if she wants to go get wasted and screw other guys, SHE CAN, but she shouldn't have commited to me in the first place!
Don't linger on this emotion too long. Learn to say "Oh well" and move on...1