My girlfriend recently broke up with me 8 days ago, she says she's completely over me, and she's been hanging out with some new guy everyday. He wants to date her, she's not getting into a relationship right now, but I think she's changing her mind. The problem is She won't talk to me at all, she ignores my messages, won't answer her phone. She's giving me one chance to see her tomorrow, I need to know what should I do? How should I act? we were together for 2 years, I love her, I really want her back. Can anyone please help me?
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Not to be harsh, but I think that sometimes when our sig. other breaks up with us it's "out of the blue" for us, but something that has been on their mind for a while. So I'm not trying to justify her actions of hanging out with another guy so quickly, but in her mind the relationship may have been over for a while (again, that's NOT okay, but might be why she's acting the way she is). If she doesn't want to talk then you need to respect her decision and let it be. Besides, especially after such a long relationship, as long as you've been respectful to her through out she should do the same for you. It's really really difficult-I'm not trying to make it seem like a piece of cake- but if you were a good partner in your relationship then you shouldn't be treated like this and you should be focusing on finding a partner who treats you better. When you see her tomorrow you can tell her exactly how the break up has made you feel, and you can certainly express you're disappointment in it ending. And then the ball is in her court and you need to start focusing on you first. She will come back or not regardless if you obsess over it. I'm sorry but it's out of your hands! Hang in there!0