My ex boyfriend and I have been talking again for months after we took a few months apart. We started to get really close again, I really love him and wanted to work on getting back together again but slowly as friends first, and he told me the same thing and he would flirt with me all the time and basically talk as if we were back together. However he went through a bad family issue and became depressed, and I have been by his side for years and I have supported him through this, just doing little things to make him feel better, like motivating him and sending him gifts and nice texts and ensuring he knows he's not alone. I tried my best to make him happy. I gave him so much importance and sacrificed my months to be there for him. I gave him space and was so understanding of his situation. He would tell me he doesn't feel like talking and I'd be okay with that. Now he's started talking to other girls and now I'm no longer his priority, and I asked why he was being distant and he'd make up excuses like I have no interested in my phone so I said, you can text other people but you barely reply to me and ignore me, and all I asked was not to be rude and ignore me, if he doesn't feeling like talking he could just say 'hey I don't wanna talk' and I'd be cool with that, and he was like fine I will. Then after that he just went on a spree of emotional abuse, really hurting my feelings and calling me cruel names. I was shocked, and I was after all I've done for you. So he just changed the topic, and started to tell me what he's up to, and I ignored him, then he text me twice again which he never does so I didn't understand. But I just told him to leave me alone, because he really hurt my feelings and it's not okay. He messaged back saying just ok and he hasn't apologised or even said anything. I don't want to text him for a few days, but I doubt he will text me realising how hurt I am. I'm just slowly going to back off but what should I do? Should I wait until he texts me
Should I wait for him to apologise?
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It's hard to move on, but it will be even more difficult to let go of you let it continue.0
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