I just got dumped and I'm probably the most confused as to why.. when I was with him everything seemed perfect we got along great. We would have long deep conversations he'd share personal stuff with me and he even said to me " you're the only girl for me" .. He eventually told me he can't commit to a relationship because of his job and other priorities.. I know that's an excuse. He told me he really cares about me. But just wants to be friends. Why do guys do such a 360 on girls?
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I am so sorry to hear that you are going through a breakup, they are one of the toughest things to go through in life and I can understand why you are feeling so confused. It is such a horrible feeling when everything is feeling right in the relationship, and then all of a sudden things take a turn for the worst. I know exactly what you are going through right now, as it is happening to me also. It is so scary how some people can have a change of heart so fast, Men mostly. It sounds to me like he is scared, men will never admit when they are scared, they tend to make excuses. But it sounds like he is scared of commitment and he could see a possible future with you and the reality of it was frightening for him. Feelings don't just go away for someone and it likely that he stills cares for you, like you probably still care for him. Men aren't all heartless, even thought sometimes they pretend to be, they're so good a putting on a front. As are women sometimes. I just think that guys turn their feelings round as fast as what they do for women, because they're scared, completely and utterly scared at what might have been their happiness.
I hope things work out for you, you deserve to be happy, & Keep smiling!1