Most Helpful Girl
I am so sorry to hear that you are going through a breakup, they are one of the toughest things to go through in life and I can understand why you are feeling so confused. It is such a horrible feeling when everything is feeling right in the relationship, and then all of a sudden things take a turn for the worst. I know exactly what you are going through right now, as it is happening to me also. It is so scary how some people can have a change of heart so fast, Men mostly. It sounds to me like he is scared, men will never admit when they are scared, they tend to make excuses. But it sounds like he is scared of commitment and he could see a possible future with you and the reality of it was frightening for him. Feelings don't just go away for someone and it likely that he stills cares for you, like you probably still care for him. Men aren't all heartless, even thought sometimes they pretend to be, they're so good a putting on a front. As are women sometimes. I just think that guys turn their feelings round as fast as what they do for women, because they're scared, completely and utterly scared at what might have been their happiness.
I hope things work out for you, you deserve to be happy, & Keep smiling!