After a long deliberation, I have decided that I am completely given up on dating, love, relationships, the whole nine. I've had problems with dating ever since I started dating in high school. When my white boyfriend broke up with me because his friends and family were giving him shit about dating a black woman. Ever since then every guy I've dated has done nothing but use me, play me, and lie to me. No matter what I do. I've dated different races, different personalities, even resorted to online dating and it was still shit, hence the last guy I dated. All love has done to me is hurt me and leave me in financial ruin and I just truly believe that I'm one of those unfortunate ones that will never find it. Everyone is so quick to say I'm attractive but if that was the case I would have someone by now, probably be married. Obviously that's just not in the cards for me and I have to just learn to deal with it. Anyone else who feel the same way feel free to commiserate. For those who are in relationships and want to talk about how happy you are and love exists, save it. I don't want to read it. 💯✌️Sometimes love doesn't exist for some people.
Most Helpful Guy
I feel like I'm given up because of my trust issues and the foul things that happen my last relationship. My ex's always come back. Cheating lying and being used are part of the game. You just have to go with it even though it hurts. What I mean is be the best person you can be the man when something happens you don't like just leave. I'm learning to not live in the past. It's hard though. I haven't found someone to love on that level again. My mom and dad didn't find the right people to marry until they were in their 40s1
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Most Helpful Girl
Omg I feel the exact same way. A girl I'd been seeing for two months (who I thought I was in a relationship with) and had fallen for walked out when I took her how I felt about her.) like I don't know what I did wrong I was so good to her and we spent almost every night together. She was younger than me 20 and I was the first girl she's been with and everyone tells me she used me as an experiment. My feelings were real though and it hurts so much. She won't respond to texts or calls and all I want to know is why and what I did wrong. I've had a ton of failed relationships with both men and women since I was in high school and 95% of the time they broke it off not me. I just feel like there must be something wrong with me and that I don't deserve to be loved.0
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