Most Helpful Girl
you're a source of attention that she can come to at any time. if you haven't healed, I'd suggest cutting all ties.
Most Helpful Guy
It's easy for me to be friends but if you want her for more than friendship it will be bad for you. Also she sounds like a nutcase who does not really know what she wants and she wants to keep you from seeing other women & put you on an emotional roller coaster for her own benefit, in my opinion.
She left you once so even if you got back together I bet she would leave you again. You would be spinning your wheels in life, missing opportunities with women who are better for you.