Advice regarding a text message to clear the air. I was the Dumpee in this situation.. Planned on sending this after a week of NC. Thoughts?
What Girls Said 1
Honestly, I think it's way too formal, robotic and just... Too much.
You're not making a business deal, you're just sorting a few things.
Also, I wouldn't be asking/hinting/assuming her decision to be single is not final. That shows an insecurity on your part. Take it at face value. she's made the decision. You are no longer together.
None of this option #1/#2 stuff.
No explaining the purpose of things; all that should be pretty self explanatory.
"Hey, just wanted to sort out the situation with the finances/ get back the apartment key and whatever else. Better to do it sooner than later. Let me know what you think and when suits. Thanks."
Something along those lines is fine. Don't be so controlling and formal, it really comes off very off-putting 😕
What Guys Said 1
Looks good to me. Calm, clear, to the point.
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