"I don't ever remember saying I loved you". after nearly 9 months of talking to the same boy, and almost being in a relationship with him, he changed his mind and said he only wanted to be fckbuddies, and when i said no and expressed my feelings for him saying i loved him and i thought he loved me, he said "i don't ever remember saying i loved you." breaking my heart. i'm in love with him, and he still crosses my mind every day and i wish i could get over him. tbh i just want a rebound or someone to make new memories with, not a relationship or to talk to someone, just someone new. i need to get over him.
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Honestly, I don't think you love him, perhaps you loved him in the past, but as of writing this question, you no longer love him. If you loved him, you wouldn't want a rebound, or someone new, you'd still want him. I've been there, when someone you love breaks up with you, even if the hottest guy wants to date you, he somehow seems to pale in comparison. You don't want anyone else, "just someone new", you want him, with all his imperfections.
On the bright side, that does mean your process of getting over him likely won't be too bad. Honestly, it takes time. Cry if you need to, have some space, stay busy, keep your mind off of him, and one day you'll realize that it doesn't hurt to think of him anymore and you are ambivalent towards him.1