Getting over the wrong one I was in love with 😭?

Just need to vent and get advice. I was with a guy on and off since August, so almost a year and he recently decided he isn't ready for a committed relationship. He still wants to sleep with me, of course, but doesn't want to be official. His last chick cheated on him the whole relationship and then bailed with their son. He is in a custody battle and having a hard time.
I have been really great to him. I am separated and have 3 kids and yet I have always been there to help him and listen to him. He was always busy or too stressed to be there when I needed or wanted him.
I know he is just not the guy for me. But it hurts to let go!!! Why? I was falling for him and loved being with him. I hate this feeling.
Getting over the wrong one I was in love with 😭?
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