I broke up with him two months ago because he cheated on me. He knew I'd break up with him if I found out yet he chose to do it anyway. I ran into him this weekend and he looks absolutely terrible and has lost weight. Apparently he hasn't told anybody I broke up with him yet and he only told me he had a new girlfriend to try and make me jealous because he doesn't really have one. The night I dumped him he claimed he was done with me too and told me he was leaving town about a month ago and that I'd never have to see him again but that was all a lie. I ignored him and didn't try to start a conversation with him or anything and he kept walking in front of me and tried to pull my hair to get my attention
If he knew I'd break up with him when he cheated on me and claimed he was over me from the start, then why hasn't he moved on yet?
Most Helpful Guy
All I can say is a real man does not cheat. Im sure he feels guilt, but only because he was caught. Wed all love to believe that a cheater is telling the truth when they say they are sorry. They might even be genuine about never cheating again, but they lost all credability when they decided to be unfaithful. I hope this helped :)1
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Most Helpful Girl
From what you are saying he seems to lie with one thing after another. Which is one reason why he cheated on you he feels he can get away with things by just extending the truth. No matter how much he tries to get your attention in his mind he felt during the relationship that he could get away with it and you wouldn't find out. He wanted that person and you. Unfortunately if he's cheated on you and lied about other things this cycle will only continue and you do not deserve that. He wants to still see if he can get with you but you need to make him realize that you will not get with him because he cannot be truthful. If you down the road still realize you want to be with him than you need to be friends until he can prove to you he's not the same person and if he truly likes you he will be willing to go through the test. However if it was me I would not be with a cheater and a habitual liar1
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