Confused and heart broken?

My partner of over a year ended our relationship around a week ago and I am left completely confused. We have had an amazing year together with loads of great memories made, we just got back from a holiday and as soon as we got back he went cold on me, after 2 days of no contact I plucked up the courage to ask what was wrong and he dropped this bombshell that he doesn't know how he feels anymore. We agree that maybe the amount of time spent together lately has been overwhelming for him and so I tried to give him some space. Howewer he came back and said he loves me and knows the relationship is perfect but he gets the fear of life when he thinks about marrying or moving in together and that he thinks we should end things now rather than carrying on and him hurting me further down the line. I'm grateful for his honesty and not stringing me along but then he came round on Friday, he cried, said it was tearing him apart seeing me upset and knowing he's causing it, but also said I can call or text him anytime I like. He keeps 'liking' everything i post on social media and then on Saturday I was in a bar with my friends and he appeared and stood right next to me at the bar pretending he hadn't saw me. I thought I'd be the bigger person and spoke to him. Why would he come anywhere near me if this is how he felt? I kept my cool, turned down a drink that he offered me. He seemed ridiculously nervous and quite down, then he left. I am completely heart broken, I do not want this to be over. Is it worth giving him a few weeks or is it a loss cause?
Confused and heart broken?
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