My ex broke up with me about a week and a half ago. Right when I thought I had moved on I realized that I love her more then I did when she broke up with me. She's moved on already but we still talk. She's got a boyfriend now that lives across the country from us and he's an ass hole but she's to blind to see it.
She kept every picture we ever took together up on her facebook even though she usually takes down pictures of her exes as soon as she can.
She talks to me all the time and if I even mention another girl she gets mad. Especially if that girl is the one she thinks I have a crush on.
We've already gotten back together once and it was great until I went on vacation and we lost communication.
She says the guy isn't an ass hole but he is. When she is hurt everyone tries to comfort her except for him (and it tends to be his fault) He purposely says things to her that he knows will upset her. But she likes him more because she can talk to him about anything, without him worrying about her or getting jealous. She told us both the same thing at the same time "I feel like I want to over dose... nothing is going right," I freaked out on her and talked to her seriously and changed her mind. All he said to her is "Have fun, does this mean I'm single?" what the f***?! I seriously want to fly to California and kill the guy right now. He's an ass hole and she deserves better.
Sometimes late at night she asks me "How are you feeling?"
and I'll say "fine" and she goes "I mean about me.." and I'll tell her "I still love you. It hurts but I think I always will, your an amazing and beautiful girl and nobody will ever be able to replace you." or something like that. She'll smile a little but then she'll type "=/" or "v.v" and sometimes she'll even say "Nobody will ever replace you. Nobody will ever be as sweet to me as you were. That night we we're on the couch was amazing, I was in heaven and I've never felt that way before, not with any of my exes and not with my bf.. he lives to far and I don't think he'd be as comfy..." or something like that..
Her mom keeps telling me "Did she even tell you he lives in California?! She still cares about you a lot, I have a feeling. Don't be to quick to move on.. I saw you tried and I saw how much it hurt both you and her" (the her is her daughter)
I don't know what to do... some people tell me to give up and some people tell me to wait and see... but it hurts a lot to know she's with that ass hole and all I can do is sit and watch as he slowly breaks her heart.
What should I do?
Is it too late to get her back?
Most Helpful Girl
It's never too late to get someone back. Especially if they have the same feelings for you. Don't rush into things if the feeling is mutual between you two. Take it slow. Show her that you're always going to be by her side no matter what. Show her that you're the bigger and better man.
Parents are usually right about relationships. They've been there done that with guys in their life. And she's right. Don't be too quick to move on. People make that mistake all the time and it ruins the best relationships.
So like I said, take it slow. Listen to her mom, and show her that you're always going to be there for her.
You're still young, so don't set your standards too high just yet.
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