Most Helpful Guy
Work on yourself, brother. If she broke up with you something is lacking. Finding another girl is not the right answer until you have reflected on what made the first girl dump you. If it something you can change, change it. Also remember, depression and self loathing is the opposite of what every girl wants. The longer you remain in that state, the longer you will be single (and, hey we have all been there). Get off the couch and stay moving.
Most Helpful Girl
Getting over a break up is never easy, and it never gets any easier. I've always learnt that you have to 'kiss a few frogs before finding your one'. That may or may not be true, but I do know that when you find 'the one', you'll know. Sadly, I am in the same position, trying to find the best way to get over a break up, I would just say that if you really do want to get over it and forget about the person you were with, definitely keep yourself busy. Do things that you love doing, I know it's hard because you sometimes feel like you don't want to be happy again. But make sure you have something planned in your day to look forward to, whether that's watching your favourite film, going out with friends, spending time with family. And better yourself as well, make YOURSELF feel good, because you deserve it. Just remember that each day is a new one, and you never know what tomorrow brings. Hope that helps a little :)