I Need help asap! Boy trouble?
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You sound like you are having a really tough time right now, and I am really sorry to hear this, you also sound like you are really confused and i do feel for you. If this guy is someone you see on a regular basis and you're able to approach him in person, then please do so. Some guys and some girls seem to have a habit of messing people around and messing with their feelings and it isn't fair at all. He may be feeling a little hurt that you met up with his two best friends, feeling like you wanted to be around them rather than him. What he did was wrong, becoming distant and then going off with another girl but coming back because she rejected him. It sounds like he thinks you will just be there for him when he is ready. He may be acting weird like this because he is scared that this may become more serious than what it is, and he may not be ready for that just yet, and it might scare him that he does actually kind of like you. The jealousy feeling is common for someone who starts to develop feelings for someone else, and he may not like the fact you might be getting attention from someone else. Social media is half the problem with relationships these days, the slightest thing we don't like to see and it upsets us and we get the wrong idea. Speaking to him in person will make you feel so much better and give you a clearer head about it all. You are not crazy, guys honestly say this about girls when they feel like they've maybe been rejected in some way. You just care about him and he is silly if he can't see that.
Good Luck, I hope things work out for you & Keep Smiling!1
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