We've been together a year and it has been filled with non-stop compliments of my appearance (to include, hot, sexy, beautiful, out of his league, perfect).
Yet today I was informed if we hadn't met in the manner we had, he didn't think we'd be each other's type. When pressed he elaborated to say he can be shallow and pretentious. Of course I took it negatively (but calmly). We are in different types of circles, levels of responsibility, professionalism etc. so I could see that atypical "typing" but he indicated it was physical.
So here's the thing, I'm by no means unattractive privately or publicly (and not just told so by my mother, but regularly men and women who are complete strangers).
So what's the butt hurt there? Especially given it's he who is doing the ending.