As a CIS white male American, i find it really really hard to date other Americans. I want to enjoy meals and talk but it feels like a game of filters, traits, or, an interview. Are you a cat person? Do you dislike spicy food? Everything is a dealbreaker let alone religion.
If anybody has a chill opinion on how to come together without the flak for Americans, I would really like to hear of it.
I guess, what im really concerned with is that there is a serious lack of men and women who refuse to roll with the punchs and choose to hold the line over the silliest issues: because nobody trusts the other. Each Dater suspects ulterior motives.
Does anybody know how to be seen genuinely by a potential lover?