*inhales... exhales* ok guys... so ove been with this guys since high school. we are both out of high school now with a 4 year old son. i have been through soooo much with this guy. cheating, beatings, verbal abuse, losing family and friends due to me not wanting to leave him. I catch him texting other girls all the time... he doesn't claim me at all. he tells them im just his baby mama 😒 we live together you guys. i left him once but he followed me... after a year of trying to make it work at my moms house with him and my family... we packed up everything we had n mpved to another staye where his family is. i must say i wasn't sure if i shouldve left when he first asked but i love him... i can't see myself without him. Now that we are here in this new state, i have caught him texting other girls, from reading the texts he has spent time with some... when we argue he says that he doesn't want a girlfriend but something in me won't let him go. even if i wanted to i feel as if i wouldn't be able to stand on my own now that i am here in a new state and have no family or friends. idc what to do you guys...
Most Helpful Guy
use the balls on your chest and get your own place. it'll suck for a while, but you need to love yourself. if he cheated on you, just go, he doesn't value you and all you are to him is a piece of ass when he can't get any from a side chick, for all you know, you're the side chick.1
Most Helpful Girl
I understand you've a great job, but you should go back home and take your child with you. Your parents will probably welcome the chance to meet the grandchild and help out. He will certainly have a better life with a mom who has pride and grandparents who love him.
Unfortunately, it seems you're not really that keen in leaving that 'boyfriend' and that is why you insist on staying there.
He's a bad, evil man. He has done enough to hurt you, your family and friends, and there is NO love there. There is NO future.
Stop wasting your time and your life.0