Most Helpful Girl
This is the great conundrum. Should I stay or should I go. Ultimately only your heart can answer this. But I would consider balancing on a two sided scale the weight of a casual fuck and a baby 👶 and then the weight of your family broken up divorce and spending the rest of your time seeing your kids half the time or less and likely being raised by another step dad. I'm not suggesting you choose one or the other. I'm merely suggesting you weigh in the reality of both sides and what they mean in the long run. I feel for you because I've been there and know it's very very hard. You will know what you must do but take a little time to think before making rash decisions.
I wish you the best. And hope whatever happens you will be happier for those decisions you make. 😔
Most Helpful Guy
I would leave for sure. I don't care how long the marriage was, if she cheated the marriage is done. It will be tough for the children sure. But, for me I couldn't live with myself or her knowing what she had done. You either get over it or leave. You shouldn't be expected to get over it. If it obstructs your view and belief, leave her. The children will be fine really at the end of the day. The woman cheated on me/you, so it's so obvious that you should leave. It's disappointing immensely, but I would leave.