Is this considered cheating?

Okay, so I've known about my STBEW and her boss have been flirting with each other before our separation. After she left to be on her own and for us to work on our marriage her mother told me she noticed they were flirting at work as well.

Anyways, she told me she was thinking about just getting a divorce, but she would randomly call me saying she missed talking to me and would come to my house to work on things with our marriage and the kids.

I found out she had been dating her boss during all of this. When I exposed her from the messages I saw and pictures. She is now telling me because she said she was thinking of the divorce that it was okay, but a lot of this stuff happened before she gave me the papers.

Is this considered cheating?
Is this considered cheating?
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