Anyways, she told me she was thinking about just getting a divorce, but she would randomly call me saying she missed talking to me and would come to my house to work on things with our marriage and the kids.
I found out she had been dating her boss during all of this. When I exposed her from the messages I saw and pictures. She is now telling me because she said she was thinking of the divorce that it was okay, but a lot of this stuff happened before she gave me the papers.
Is this considered cheating?