We broke up in a nasty way because he treated me poorly. Instead of saying sorry he texted me the other day saying he wants his stuff back and the gifts he gave me. It's not like it's his shirt or something, it's presents he gave me specifically and he wants it all back? Should I just wrap them up and drop them outside his house without a word?
There is a chance he is saying this to find a way to see me or rope me back in again. I was thinking of dropping them off before he can say anything and texting him "dropped them off here" to keep it disconnected so he doesn't try to see me again.
Most Helpful Guy
1. You are not obligated to return things which he gave to you as gifts, but I have found that it is the easiest way to resolve a relationship if my ex makes such a request.
2. You can package those things and leave them with one of his friends or relatives. Then ask the friend or relative to let him know that they have those things.
3. Block the guy on all media and avoid all contact. This move ("Hey! Return all my shit, dammit!") is a sign that this is a toxic relationship and you need to make this break as clean and final as possible.1
Most Helpful Girl
Just give him them back. You don't have to see him again then2