Again, remember people who lust after they are looking or are already with often lose attraction 200% faster IMHO than people who always loved them but felt something is off about the relationship. That's why you have to get into a relationship for all the right reasons.
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It may be "normal", but that's a sign of someone falling out of love as love is what ignites attraction. Lots of married couples who have been married for 20+ still find their spouses to be the most beautiful individuals in the world. I could never get tired of staring at someone I'm in love with even if time has elapsed. Time does not destroy attraction, just like it doesn't destroy love.
@babylips14 Thank you!!
Thank you!!! I can't believe so many people on here actually think that time destroys attraction smh.
There's a difference between love and attraction though.
@ThisDudeHere you are right, but if you truly love and care for someone, you wouldn't feel attracted to others, or you would overcome your lesser urges and refrain from looking elsewhere
I feel as though this does not necessarily mean that she wants to look at other people, but that she just isn't as attracted to him as much as she was initially. This doesn't really mean she wants to cheat or whatever, but maybe she's questioning whether she should end the relationship or hold out for better days.
Dude, that's a pretty naive thought. Attraction to other people never goes away, even when you're in love.
@creepypanda I would agree with you.
@ThisDudeHere I agree with OP. Love alters the way you perceive other people physically. So as long as you're in love, that person remains the most beautiful person in the world to you even if you have been together for decades. Just look at people who claim That their wives are the most beautiful women in the world after 10+ years of marriage. If attraction is fading away, that means you're not in love anymore as one of the effects of love is attraction.
@creepypanda I'm just going to say the same thing I told the other guy who commented. If you lose attraction to someone over time, that means you were never in love in the first place or fell out of love. Time does not automatically destroy attraction.
@OP, I agree 100%.
Finding others attractive and losing attraction for a significant other are two completely different arguments.
I have a crush on you
@babylips14 thanks for elaborating, i could not find the words to explain myself so well.
@ElissaDido sorry i am talking to someone already
Riiiight. Guys just complain about girls they've never even met in real life... anonymously. What a brave little soul you are.
Girls Can't handle the truth 😂. You're hardly a brace would yourself 😂
You do realize there's 8 lady's that disagree with what you said... unreal... lmao
and its not normal for women to lose attraction... no no no... only if they think looks over personality
Attraction isn't just looks. Girls suddenly lose attraction for a guys personality overnight sometimes. Then they just see him as ugly.
8 girls can't handle the truth
not if you love their personality, personality makes a person beautiful... so tough shi*
Well say that to 70% of married women.
Maybe girls just See YOU as ugly overnight. And YOU'RE the one who can't handle the truth so you blame all girls for disliking your shitty personality.
I'm 18 and never been in a relationship. I don't really care what assumptions you make. 70%. Girls are the unhappy ones - not me 👍
Well it's not normal... if people do theirs reasons behind it such as...They've cheated and they are finding flaws or they are in love with someone else.That's why you don't fall in love with their looks honestly your asking for it. Because later on in life. Wrinkles they get gray hair they gain weight etc that will change an apperence
And if your single and never had a girl you just can't assume something because your making an ass out of you and me so just grow up. Get in a relationship and have fun and experience life
@xButterflyKisses87x it's not the time for me to get into a relationship. This coming year I just want to focus on my exams!
@xButterflyKisses87x he's just another inexperienced Mr. Know-it-all. Let's use our time more wisely and not take this little kid seriously. He doesn't know what he's talking about. All ego and all talk, but no substance.
This kid here has a 10million trust fund. Why is it in a trust? Because women are known for their divorces. I also have high standards. Also, I'm only gonna marry a virgin - someone who respects their body and only shares it with someone truly important. The 8 girls that disagree are the ones that 'lose attraction' overnight and screw another guy and up their dick count. I will happily stay single until 23-25 then we can see what good, respectable women' are left 👍
Last time you are a troll, the 8 people who thumbs down actually disagreed with you.. Whoever the heck you are, I am seriously done with you, you don't know anything
@TheDevilInside Agreed I'm done with this douche, I'm going to ignore this thread now you're right
Okay 👍 You dimwits clearly can't make a clear decision and are taking it way too personally. 👋
🖕 you don't understand you have never had a girlfriend lmao. Go get lost and now I am done
Ha, there is no shame in that - it's a good thing. I'm going to wait for someone special/deserving of love. I don't need a girlfriend. I never will, but I really want one in the future. Girls and guys my age go to clubs to get drunk and kiss as many girls/guys as they can 🤢. Fuck that, Im so above that.You're 30 years old. Are you sure, I honestly feel like I'm talking to a 15 year old.
You're pissed 😤 because you feel guilty. You don't match what I want.
I could bloody care less... your an ass
You've said you have done with talking but you keep replying so I think you do care.
Exactly what I thought.