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it does more harm then good. kids can tell that they are unhappy and will think that's how a relationship is supposed to be
thank you for choosing me
I've heard that happens a lot. My parents included.
Well, not all of them leave... It's important to stay in the marriage or relationship for the children because, depending on their age, separation can really have a negative impact on them. Don't be selfish. Sometimes the couple might not 100% love each other anymore, but at least be there for the children. If they're older, and divorce is the only option, that's different. If the child is much younger than around middle school age, it would probably be better benefited if you two stay a couple.
I hear what you're saying but I personally think staying for the kids does more harm than good because they clearly see a dysfunctional relationship modelled for them. its better to see mummy and daddy happy apart than together and miserable
Depends on their age to be honest and just how much you hate your husband or wife 😆. If you truly can't stand the sight of them, then maybe staying around will not be the best. Sometimes, dare I say, 9/10, you can always solve the issue just by sitting down and talking. Unless if she cheats. She's out automatically if she cheats 😅
Correct me if I'm right or wrong but your saying If she cheats she's out but if the guy cheats he stays? That doesn't sound right. Some problems can be solved where as others can't no matter how much you talk abut it some just can't be fixed
I only said "she" because I'm a guy. I was referring to MY partner really. Of course it should be the same if the man cheats. Also, again, I said 9/10 most problems should be solved by just sitting down and talking. I feel a lot of relationships and marriages can be remedied or saved if the two really made it their goal to do so. I think people don't try as hard as they could.
I agree with u Inayah,@policelivesmatter maybe you're living on ur own world (ideal)
Eld61, No, I'm not. Did you read anything I wrote? Many couples, do not try everything they should to keep the relationship going or stable. I feel like if they really sat down and talked 9 out of 10 times, things can get solved. That's what I wrote. That's not to say 100% of the time things work out if you sit down and talk. I think a lot of the time as well, people are selfish in this scenarios and don't take the children's feelings or mental well being into concern. They just want to leave each other as soon as possible without ever looking at the child because they can't stand living in the same house as their partner/spouse. That's what I'm saying. Not an ideal world, just read what I wrote next time.
whatever, when you'll face it one day then tell me
You're not making any sense buddy. Did you even read any of my posts?
They've been raised to think anything that is a non-nuclear family is somehow automatically detrimental to the development and well-being of the children.Sometimes this is directly related to an event of divorce in their lives that wasn't handled well, coped with, or is blamed on for their own faults.
Well, I believe a non nuclear family is detrimental to the well-being of the child. The dynamics/biology of the nuclear family, allow the child the MOST optimal environment for flourishing. Both a loving mother and protecting father. That's what children need.
And that's fine, by all means, none of the data or anecdotes for thay matter support it, but you know how tricky those studies are
There's plenty of data supporting how much more beneficial it is for a child to be raised by both a mother and father.
Cause breaking up messes with the childs psyche, however, continual arguing infront of said child is more detrimental in my opinion. But not eeveryone sees it that that way.
there are many reasonsone is because their partner is abusive and they believe that if they leave then the abuse will get worse
Cuz they rather be un happy an complain even if you Tell them get out of a bad thing
chldren need routine and structure, I totally get why someone would sacrifice their own happyness for the sake of their child's mental health
Because humans make mistakes
I think a lot of folks do...
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