we have been together for 7 years and have a 3 year old. he has broke up with me 3 times. the last time he promised that he would go to counseling, we would go to church. we would share everything. he would do whatever it took. but he just couldn't. he leaves and won't talk. I cry and try to tell him how I feel and I get nothing. when we see each other he acts as though nothing has happened, but if I try talking about it he shuts down. he is 42 years old. can I fix this? and if he doesn't want to be with me why will he not leave me alone?