Hi, I loved a girl in university and this girl even tells me that she had no boyfriend multiple times. She gave me so many chances to ask her out. She is extremely popular, smart (goes to Masters in Finance at Washington University), career excelled (has a lot of exp alrdy), part of a extremely rich family, nice and friendly. I am just a loser who is 3 years behind in University and loner asshole. I fucked up so hard... I didn't ask her out and I got really negative about myself because she was so high up and I got really mentally sick... and she got super frustrated and mad. I kept arguing with her even though i loved her and didn't mean it. I didn't communicate with her. Later on, she rejected me and I yelled at her. However, she came to sit at the table beside me even after I yelled at her... I just ignored her... She was so perfect to me. She was my first love... I feel like shit. I will never find a girl like her... I am 25 and she was the only girl I've ever loved... What to do... I know I must improve myself. But I feel like I lost the opportunity of a lifetime... =( I will never find a girl like that.
Most Helpful Girl
Hey man, don't beat yourself up over it. If you were too shy and you messed up, that's in the past. I PROMISE YOU, YOU WILL FIND A GIRL PERFECT FOR YOU.
I've rejected a guy and his friends told me he was beating himself up over it, and I feel so fucking bad about it.
And if she looks down on you for what she might think as "less" than her, that is the worst person to be. You are no less than any girl, guy, or human being in the world. Your amount of money does not define you.
If she rejected you the first time and came back to you, she obviously did not want to give you a chance. Even if she was perfect for you, you might've not been perfect for you. Chances are, if you guys got married, neither of you would've been happy.
Promise me that you won't become desperate for love. Although that girl might've been 'your dream girl' and you might 'never find a girl like that,' you'll find somebody even better. I ASSURE YOU.
good luck :)1
Most Helpful Guy
I had a similar experience. You will never truly get over her or find someone just like her. You probably won't open up to anyone else either like you did to her either. You get used to it though when you start going after other chicks and eventually you let go.2