My girlfriend (this happens to be both of our first relationships) seems like she can never do anything with me. We have been great friends for several years now and we finally got together almost two months ago. After a few weeks, she broke up with me, but then a week later said that I misunderstood and that she just wanted a break to a point when she could be more free to do stuff, and we got back together. I have tried to do stuff with her, but she never seems to be able to do anything, always saying she has something else, though sometimes she wouldn't have to go to it. It just feels like I'm putting in a lot of effort into trying to do things with her, while she doesn't seem to be doing as much towards it. Am I wrong, or is she just not wanting to try as hard to get into a full on relationship beyond just friends.
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Now's the time to establish your masculinity.
Tell her you're done, and that you don't want anything to do with her.
She's not worth the effort to be her friend, so let her go to the wolves, while you're busy chasing some other girl.0